Chuck’s illness and death have been profound, painful, and life-changing experiences. Yet, neither Chuck nor I were passive, weak, and negative people. Both together during his illness and now as I carry on I have shared a determination that this experience will not be completely negative. Today’s “Healing After Loss” reading and final admonition capture this well, “I will use all the wisdom and power I possess to come through this well.” And shortly after Chuck died and Christmas arrived, a very close friend told me “You can be happy and sad at the same time.” And I wrote earlier of this concept of “happdy” - a new word I coined. Such a weird but real concept.
Thru many dangers, toils and snares we have already come, T'was Grace that brought us safe thus far and Grace will lead us home. This is what immediately popped into my head after reading your latest.
I start and end each day with an attitude of gratitude and I pray for someone or something and I ask for forgiveness. It has gotten me through so sad times . I am a worrier and it helps even in small ways. I like your new word 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, Jane, for sharing your very personal feelings as you move on the journey toward healing, a journey many of us will experience in the future. Your story will help us.
Thru many dangers, toils and snares we have already come, T'was Grace that brought us safe thus far and Grace will lead us home. This is what immediately popped into my head after reading your latest.
I am told the Harvard link might not be working (let's be honest: the fact that I even know how to attempt that should be applauded). Here it is: https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier
I start and end each day with an attitude of gratitude and I pray for someone or something and I ask for forgiveness. It has gotten me through so sad times . I am a worrier and it helps even in small ways. I like your new word 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, Jane, for sharing your very personal feelings as you move on the journey toward healing, a journey many of us will experience in the future. Your story will help us.